Emilia Lenda
 
 
 

Connect to the true essence of your sexuality. Reclaim your pleasure & power and create the life of your dreams.

 
 
 

Hi, my name is Emilia

…and I want to share with you how connecting with your pussy and your pleasure can completely change your life. 

Not just your sexuality, your whole life. 

How you can fall in love with your body, have more pleasure in the bedroom than you ever thought was possible. Have a luscious connection with your femininity, feel inner freedom and power. So that you can create the life you desire. 

I want all of that for you.

 
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Take a second and think about it...

 

If this is the reality:

- shame and secrecy around sex

- patriarchy and male centric view of sexuality

- nobody ever educates us about sex

- porn is the only source of learning about it

- objectification of the female body

- sexual violence against women

- religious conditioning

- slut shaming

 
 

It’s a lot, right? 

It doesn’t exactly feel safe to be a sexually vibrant woman in our day and age. 

I certainly didn’t feel that way, for a long time. 

But after years of living in confusion and disconnection, I was done putting that part of my life off. 

And I have a sense that’s where you are now.

You feel that sexuality is that big topic shrouded in mystery but you KNOW that it holds an important key to your evolution? 

And you finally want to tap into the endless pleasure and orgasm potential of your body, you want to live that sex goddess life?

You want to get free, let go of shame and conditioning that are keeping you stuck and small?

You want to turn on your radiance and magnetism to go through life attracting things with ease, not efforting them into existence?

Great, I hoped so.

I have some bad and good news for you, I will start with the bad…

 
 
 

Since we're little we're taught to unconsciously disconnect from our power. How?

 
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In taoist and tantric tradition, the source of our energy, our generator is in our root chakra, which is located in the genitals. 

You might have heard the sentence “Sexual energy is life force energy”. The fountain of our personal fuel streams from our root chakra which is between our legs. 

That means that we use energy for everything we do in life - relationships, work, children, creativity. 

And also sex.   

 
 
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But the societal repression of sexuality and anything that has to do with “down there”, is cutting us off from that power source. 

It’s not possible to partially close off access to energy. If it’s closed for one thing, it’s restricted for everything. 

If you feel depleted, numb, disconnected, you might better understand why it could be.  

 
 
 

So does it mean that...

... sexuality is not just about feeling great in the bedroom, it’s more than that?

Yes! It’s also a reclamation of power, the unlocking of your potential.

You might ask, what is power actually? I was also fuzzy on that subject for a long time...

Power means being able to alter your reality in the way that you envision it. 

Or to put it more simply, power is getting what you want. And for that you need two things:

power = access to your energy + being centred in your truth (know what you want)

 

Because when you’re rooted in your truth you stop looking outside for answers. 

And when you have energy to bring to life what your truth whispers to you, that’s how you get what you truly want. 

 
 
 
 
 

And how does it tie back to orgasms and pleasure?

So often women operate their sexuality from what the outside world is telling us about how we should look, sound, perform, what is sexy and what is not - according to the male gaze.

And it’s very disempowering. 

As if we were giving up our autonomy and self agency, with such an important sphere of life. 

Reclaiming our bodies, our pleasure and the right to be a saint or a slut is what lies at the foundation of taking back our power.   

It’s so liberating and it carries into the rest of your life. 

Power is being connected to your center and trusting it so deeply that the only person you answer to is yourself.

Now, we’re onto the good news:

 
 
 

Sexuality is just like anything in your life - it can be trained. No matter where you start.

 
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The truth is that we all have a beautiful vibrant sexuality, even if it seems totally out of reach.

You might feel like it’s lost but in truth it’s probably buried underneath layers of shame, trauma, numbness, societal conditioning. 

I know how daunting it can be to stand in front of a wall separating you and your vibrant sexual core. 

When I first approached it, it looked insurmountable! (hint: it isn’t!)

That’s why I’m so passionate about offering the guidance I so wish I had when I was ready to reclaim my pleasure and power. 

We’re peeling away the layers that got built up over the years to eventually reveal your own unique blueprint of how your sexuality wants to express through you. 

And just to give you a taste of how it feels…

...it’s like coming home.

Like being the most yourself you’ve ever been. Feeling so free and at the same time in intimate connection with yourself and the universe.

Your body being a fine tuned apparatus for experiencing exquisite pleasure, everywhere, not just in your genitals. You become a pleasure antennae. 

 
 
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Am I really telling you that connecting to your pussy is going to transform your life?

 
 

Absolutely!

 
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You see, most of us live in a chronic state of lack of safety. 

Caused by trauma, our childhood wounding, unresolved emotions etc. 

And to protect itself, our nervous system creates a sort of armor of numbness in the body. 

And you know what it also affects?

The capacity to be connected to your pleasure, your pussy, your intuition. 

Pussy is our link to the feminine energy, sexual vibrance and desire. 

Desire at large, both in the bedroom but also in life. 

An awakened pussy starts to be a very active magnet attracting the life we want - relationships, passion in the work life, beautiful environment. 

Pussy wants beauty, pleasure, depth and true fulfilment. 

 
 
 

You can give yourself the exciting sexual education you most likely never received!

 
 
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How did I get here? 

My journey with sexuality started very abruptly when I was little - I was sexually abused by a family member. 

Through that experience, I unconsciously started placing my value on how sexually desirable I could be. 

I always liked sex, felt pleasure and had access to various orgasms. But I was trying to look, sound, perform and be how I thought it SHOULD be done. 

And that ultimately left me very underwhelmed at best. 

Thankfully, in 2016 I discovered tantra and conscious sexuality and I heard the call, I was shown a whole different world. 

I knew I wanted to assist others in that process, so in 2020 I completed the extensive Sex Love and Relationship coaching certification program created by Layla Martin. 

I faced my traumas, I built safety in my nervous system and I went through a complete remodelling of my sexuality. 

And let me tell you, it was like being reborn again! Like coming to myself and to the glorious sizzling potential of feeling good in my own body.

And being able to tap into my power, accessed through the freeing of my sexuality.

 

 
 
 
 

 

 
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and I present to you:

 
 
 
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Benefits you can experience…

⭐ Being centred in your truth and following it so that you can be unapologetically yourself

⭐ Setting good boundaries and asking for what you want  

⭐ Having access to your energy and being able to use it for sex, creativity, relationships, your own evolution 

⭐ Developing a luscious and vibrant relationship with your feminine energy and your pussy 

⭐ Being in awe of your sexuality, discovering its unique flavor and expression

⭐ Emotional literacy and liberation, befriending your emotions and seeing them as a source of your power not weakness 

⭐ Making your body deliciously sensitised to pleasure

⭐ New kinds of orgasms, becoming multiorgasmic 

 
 
 
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“ The biggest transformation for me was where I moved from a total lack of understanding of my feminine energy, the lack of connection with my inner power, to the point where I felt it very strongly in my whole body.
I started to vibrate all over, I felt every cell of my being. I felt like I was flying, and had great connection to my energy.
I felt like I was born again. I will never forget this experience. ”

Alice

“ In the beginning, I was a bit hesitant about some of the practices and not sure whether they would be for me. But Emilia created such an amazing space and made it easy for me to let go and listen to my body.
Her energy is radiant and she is so passionate about what she does. It just makes you want to learn more and more and see what else there is to discover.
The sessions have allowed me to reconnect with myself and try new things with an open mind. I am incredibly grateful for that experience and I cannot recommend her enough! ”

Ro 

 
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NECTAR includes:

💫 4 months
💫 12 online coaching sessions 
💫 3 weeks of work 1 week for integration
💫 Guided home practices - pdf and audio

 
 
 

I want to invite you for a bespoke private coaching journey NECTAR where I create a safe and compassionate space to do the most profound work in the most gentle way.

It’s not for the faint of heart, it’s a journey that’s going to take you to the depths of who you are. But the rewards are massive. 

I will help you dissolve, release and integrate the obstacles that stand in the way of reclaiming your sexuality - numbness, limiting beliefs, stuck emotions, judging your body. 

So that we can create more space for the parts of you who know that it’s your birthright to have exquisite amounts of pleasure in your life.

Some of the tools, techniques and modalities I use in my work: 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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YOUR INVESTMENT

Private Coaching Payment Plans

 
 
 

*contact me for special rates for people living in Poland

 
 
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 Frequently Asked Questions

 
 

Is it in person or online?

This is an online offering, all sessions take place via Zoom.

Do you offer refunds?

There are no refunds. But I offer a FREE 45-60 min no obligation discovery call which will give you a good sample of my work, and help you decide whether this is for you. You can book it here

I feel like I’m too old/young for this program, is it for me?

It’s never too early or too late for this! Some of the most sexually vibrant women I know are in their sixties and seventies. And how I wish I could have been introduced to this work as a teen, initiated into the world of conscious sexuality from the very beginning. For legal reasons I work with people 18 and over.

 

I already participated in a lot of workshops, how is coaching going to be different?

That’s great, I’m a big fan of group work. In 1:1 work, there is a full laser focus on your individual path. It allows for faster and more dramatic results. It helps to find blind spots which sometimes in a group work go undetected. Having your personal guide allows you to feel more safe and thus journey deeper within yourself, And you’re going to love the intimate and expert space holding I offer.  

Is this for the members of LGBTQ+ community? 

I care deeply about inclusivity and creating a safe container for people of all gender expressions and sexual orientations. That being said, I’m a heterosexual, bicurious, cis woman. My lived experience might not correspond with that of a queer person. Additionally, this program contains some gendered concepts and language. But if you feel called to work together, I’m honoured and I will do my best to hold safe space for you, and if I slip, to clean up my mistakes. 

 
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